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How to have great sex in the shower

editor — Sat, 19 Sep 2009 13:26:19 +0000

Most people have tried to have sex in the bath or shower, and most people have realised that it’s not as easy as you’d think.

The lack of space and slippery surfaces make it all a bit tricky and go may go off the idea pretty quick.
I’ve put together a few tips for having great shower sex that I will share with you below.

Shower foreplay

Most girls have used the shower head to masturbate. If you haven’t you should try it, make sure it is not too hot of course as your clit may not like that water as hot as the rest of your body. Allowing the warm water to flow over your clit can feel great.
The shower spray can also be great for a guy too. Again make sure the water is not too hot or too cold. Spraying the water on the underside of a guys penis can feel great. It stimulates the frenulum and encourages blood flow, this can feel great and as a bonus can give him a bigger, stronger erection.

Sex in the shower positions

Finding the right position in the shower is not easy and sex can be awkward due to limited space and slippery surfaces and nothing to grab for balance.
Sportsheets have created some amazing Sex In The Shower products that give you something to hold onto. They also have a foot rest and handle to give you the perfect leverage. This opens you up to a whole range of new positions and makes sex in the shower more fun as you are les likely to fall and hurt yourself.

Waterproof vibrators – take them in the shower

Vibrators are not just for the bedroom. Not all vibrators are waterproof though, so make sure that yours is before taking it in the shower or bath. You should also check if it is splash proof or fully waterproof. Splash proof might be fine for a bit of fun in the shower but if you want to use it fully underwater it will need to be fully waterproof.
There is an amazing range of waterproof vibrators on the market now. Some of those are specifically designed for fun in the shower or bath rather than the waterproofness being another feature.

If you want to leave your vibrator in the bathroom so it is there for you whenever the mood takes you then the I Rub My Duckie Waterproof Vibrator quite clever. There’s nothing worse than having to get out of the bath to go and get something you’ve forgotten. You can leave the I rub my duckie vibrator in the bathroom without it looking out of place.

See the I Rub my duckie in action…

If this is still a bit too much for you to leave lying round your bathroom then you can also get a vibrating sponge. It looks just like a normal sponge but has hidden compartment to keep a bullet vibe in.

Female ejaculation – squirting in the shower

One of the main things that stop women squirting is the fear of messing up the bed and the worry that comes with it. Meaning that they hold themselves back from squirting.
The shower or bath is a great place to try squirting. Standing up in the shower or lying down in the bath both give you a great position to let you pleasure your g-spot. The worry of making a mess is taken away and you can squirt and gush as much as you want.

Lubrication

Another problem that you may come across when having sex in the shower is that the water tends to wash away your natural lubrication leaving you a bit dry. To combat this you could use a silicone lubricant. They are better for use in the shower than water based lubricants as they do not wash away as easily and should keep you wet for as long as you need. Make sure that you don’t use silicone lubricant with silicone sex toys!

Female ejaculation: how to squirt!

editor — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 20:49:24 +0000

Yes, that’s right. Women can ejaculate too, and here’s how you can give it a shot…
Even though it’s only a small majority of women who can squirt further than some men, most women are capable of producing big gushes of milky white vaginal fluid when their G-spot is stimulated properly. It just takes time and practice, like everything else that’s worth waiting for.
In order to get even close to ejaculating, you need to stimulate your G-spot. To find your G-spot, you or your lover will have to place a finger inside against your vaginal wall and waggle a finger in a ‘come hither’ motion. You should be able to feel a raised, textured area that’s different to the rest of the vaginal wall. G-spots vary from woman to woman, but they’re usually spongy in texture, even though the size and pleasure capacity varies with each individual.

It’s worth pointing out here that will some women will literally wet themselves with pleasure when their G-spot is stimulated, others won’t be too bothered and some may find it annoying. But if you want to give female ejaculation a shot, you need to get used to having your G-spot touched and stimulated.
To stimulate your G-spot, you can either use your fingers or your partner’s fingers, through sex positions such as Doggie style or Reverse Cowgirl (lean back so that your partner’s penis really hits the spot) or with a specially designed sex toy such as the G-Tongue G-spot And Clitoral Vibrator.

You may feel as though you want to pee when you start stimulating your G-spot, which can be an uncomfortable feeling for some women, but as long as you’ve emptied your bladder before you started then you won’t pee the bed. Just keep going and that urge to wee will soon pass; replaced by a deeply satisfying sensation the further on you go.
A G-spot orgasm can take some time to achieve, but it’s well worth the effort. Once you get to the point where you feel as though you’re going to have an earth-shattering orgasm, push your PC muscles out (rather than clenching them in) to increase your chances of squirting or gushing. You may want to place a towel underneath you during your first few attempts… Just in case!

How to date a stripper

editor — Mon, 18 May 2009 21:43:12 +0000

If you are a fan of Hollyoaks as I am you may have been following the storyline where Dom has a stripper girlfriend. As you would expect things don’t run that smoothly even in tv land.

I’ve been reading an interesting guide on how to date a stripper by Flashy over at openzine. Here are the top tips he gives in his dating a stripper guide.

Befriend the dancer first. Most dancers dislike the managers and have their favorites among the bouncers. If you befriend the dancers first, you don’t have to worry about being one those “creepy” pals of the manager.
Don’t ask them for their phone numbers or real names right away. Let them give it to you when it’s the right time. Give them yours instead.
The best chance of dating a stripper is when you meet them outside the club–at the gym, a concert, the store, etc. As has been said, some strippers won’t date any customers; some strippers will ‘hook up’ but not date a very attractive customer, and some strippers will occasionally date a customer they find attractive.
Don’t be drunk at the club where she dances. Dress nicely and make sure you smell good.
If you are having a relationship with a stripper, stay out of the club she’s in. Jealousy tends to rear its head, even though the stripper is on the job and needs to do the ‘hustle’ in order to get an income. She may also feel jealous if you flirt or purchase dances from other strippers. The last thing a stripper needs is relationship issues coming into her workplace.

Find out more about how to date a stripper here

8 Sex Positions Women Love

editor — Wed, 26 Dec 2007 20:27:56 +0000

Sex shouldn’t resemble Naked Twister. Too much twisting and contorting can leave a woman feeling like a sexless member of Cirque du Soleil.

“Unlike men, women can lose an orgasm almost in the midst of having one,” says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of She Comes First and He Comes Next.

The solution?

This simple series of positions, designed to help you flow naturally from move to move without ending up like a flesh pretzel.

Missionary
It’s tame, but it’s a natural starter because of strong eye contact, says Kerner. “But men often ejaculate faster because of the friction.” To last longer and keep her happy, switch to a move that maintains clitoral pressure without so much thrusting.

Spider
Sit back and pull her toward you while you both lift your knees. “Physically, it allows her to feel a deeper, more intense, more intimate stimulation than missionary, with less friction,” says Candida Royalle, author of How to Tell a Naked Man What to Do.

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How To Give Her Mind Blowing, Leg Shaking Orgasms

editor — Wed, 26 Dec 2007 20:10:13 +0000

Partners can’t always “give” women orgasms as women are ultimately responsible for their orgasms and what will allow that to occur. What I mean by this is that a woman must have taken time to learn what pleasures her body and know what will bring her to orgasm so that she may in turn help her lover know how to please her.

What A Woman Can Do:

Communicate. You really need to express what will bring you to orgasm to help your partner best pleasure you or don’t be surprised if you are disappointed.

All women are different in our sexual technique preferences and we can often vary what we want in various moments because our sexuality is so highly connected to our psyche. Thus, it is important to communicate what we want through words, moans and even taking your partners hands or body and showing them.

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How To Hide An Unwanted Erection – shackle your tackle and hide your hard-on

editor — Tue, 25 Dec 2007 18:43:19 +0000

In the right place, an erection is a wonderful thing. But an out-of-context boner can cause embarrassment.

Step 1: Clothing choices
If Mr. Happy is constantly coming out to play then make your clothing work for you.
There are lots of techniques to disguise your junk – the secret is in choosing the right combination.
Tight underwear can help to keep your tiger in its cage, but it does bunch things up rather.
So combine with some loose trousers to hide the resulting bulge.
If you’re more of boxers man, then wearing loose, light clothing like linen trousers or jogging bottoms is fatal – if the circus comes to town, your little clown will have no problem pitching his big top where everyone can see.
So with boxers, wear fabrics like thick denim which are too heavy for your little body builder to bench-press.
For added protection wear a loose, long shirt that will hang down and conceal your shame stick.

Step 2: Body positioning
When your little man becomes a rebel with a cause, lean casually against a wall, lifting one leg and resting your foot behind you. This should cause ol’ James Dean to run parallel with your thigh rendering him almost invisible.
Watching the world go by can be a hazardous activity, willy-wise. In a man-root emergency, act immediately by positioning your body to create space between your trousers and your jolly pink giant.

Step 3: Use the fist
Negate the impact of an incriminating dingaling by placing your hand in your pocket and curling it into a fist. To the onlooker, the bulge is your hand, not your he-ham.
Depending on how strongly you’re straining at the leash, you may also need to pull your hand away from your body slightly. Alternatively place a large object – like an oversized wallet or a bottle of water – in your pocket to create the same effect.

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How To Undress A Woman With Your Teeth

editor — Tue, 25 Dec 2007 18:18:55 +0000

Undressing your woman is a vital part of foreplay. If you want to get a woman’s pulse racing in the bedroom, utilising your teeth to remove her clothes can be exciting and passionate.

Step 1: Work out if it’s possible

Work out if you are going to be able to do remove the garments in question with your teeth, if it’s too big a project give up before you begin.Dim the lights, light some candles, put on some dreamy romantic music.

Step 2: Don’t break anything

The one thing that will end this experiment straight away is if you damage any of her favourite clothing. Be careful- no ripping, no wrecking, no slobbering.

Step 3: Know your limits

However dextrous your tongue is, you must accept that some items cannot be removed orally. When it comes to earrings and shoes, don’t even try- just get her to give you a helping hand

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How to kiss someone passionately!

editor — Tue, 25 Dec 2007 16:07:23 +0000

For those of us who still haven’t upgraded from practicing on the mirror.

You Will Need

A pair of lips
Someone to kiss
Confidence

Step 1: Preparation

Check your breath. If you are intending to kiss someone for the first time then avoid strong foods like onion, garlic or strong flavours, unless of course your partner has been indulging in the same foods. If in doubt about your breath, suck a breath mint. But remember to have swallowed this before you start kissing, or your partner will be very surprised, particularly if they don’t like mint.

Step 2: Be confident

Nothing ruins a kiss more than uncertainty. This confidence is essential, as hard as it is to get a kiss the first time, it will be harder to get one after a failed attempt. Once you have decide you are going to kiss someone, choose your moment and go for it.

Step 3: The lips

It is best to start off simply. When it feels right, tilt your head slightly to one side to avoid clashing noses, lean in and press your lips onto your partner’s lips, softly, so you don’t bump teeth. If you do bump teeth accidentally, just carry on kissing.
Vary the amount you open your mouth, and the rhythm of your kisses. You may wish to use the tip of your tongue.

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Two Knotty Boys – The Hair Corset

editor — Thu, 13 Dec 2007 23:58:05 +0000

At first the usefulness of this was lost on me. But once you’ve got the corset on it is really easy to attach the remaining rope to something. Then the only way to escape would be for your “victim” to cut their hair off. [youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6UI84L-KUyM&rel=1] Related posts:Two Knotty Boys – The Basic WrapTwo Knotty Boys – [...] Related posts:

Two Knotty Boys – The Basic Wrap

editor — Thu, 13 Dec 2007 23:49:34 +0000

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