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Having an orgasm could boost your career

editor — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 21:10:05 +0000

According to research buy the UK’s first Orgasm Dr Lisa Turner coach women who orgasm regularly are healthier, can think more clearly and are more likely to be successful at work.

The research reports that many women see orgasms as unnecessary and apparenltly 50% of the female population cannot achieve orgasm.
Dr Turner also claims that women could even be doing damage to their bodies and their careers by not ‘letting go’.

Well there we go, I always feel great after a really good session.

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8 Sex Positions Women Love

editor — Wed, 26 Dec 2007 20:27:56 +0000

Sex shouldn’t resemble Naked Twister. Too much twisting and contorting can leave a woman feeling like a sexless member of Cirque du Soleil.

“Unlike men, women can lose an orgasm almost in the midst of having one,” says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of She Comes First and He Comes Next.

The solution?

This simple series of positions, designed to help you flow naturally from move to move without ending up like a flesh pretzel.

Missionary
It’s tame, but it’s a natural starter because of strong eye contact, says Kerner. “But men often ejaculate faster because of the friction.” To last longer and keep her happy, switch to a move that maintains clitoral pressure without so much thrusting.

Spider
Sit back and pull her toward you while you both lift your knees. “Physically, it allows her to feel a deeper, more intense, more intimate stimulation than missionary, with less friction,” says Candida Royalle, author of How to Tell a Naked Man What to Do.

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Signs She’s Faking It

editor — Wed, 26 Dec 2007 20:24:52 +0000

It has been estimated by various studies that 70% of women fake orgasms at some point in their sexual lives. Some fake it very regularly — as in every time — while others only do it sometimes.

The psychology behind faking it is simple: She isn’t going to have an orgasm this time, and she knows it. She can’t be bothered with

you trying hard to satisfy her and prolonging the encounter, and
you feeling bad because you couldn’t satisfy her come hell or high water.

If you want to know if you are being duped, use the following signs that she really is having an orgasm to distinguish the faux from the bona fide, and catch her in the act.

Retraction of the clitoral head
This occurs just before orgasm and provides you with a clitoris-sized hint. When the clit disappears, you’re on the right track, so don’t stop. This coveted disappearance of the clitoris isn’t only visible if you have the lights on and your face all up in it; it’s something you can feel as well. So, get yourselves into a position where you can easily rub her clitoris during sex, and use it to your advantage. Under the guise of giving her some extra special treatment, you can feel whether she’s actually close to climaxing or just faking.

Increased breathing and heart rate
Listen to the sound of her breathing in your ear: When it starts to get heavier, you’ll know you’re onto something. The change will occur reasonably swiftly when she is about to orgasm, and will be accompanied by a completely unconscious change in the tension, rhythm and pace of her other body movements. Liars and the truthful alike might clutch at you and moan and groan, but her breathing is the missing link. Her thumping heart will also be a sign that it’s for real; if she isn’t actually excited, her heart rate and bodily manner will be very ordinary.

Dilated pupils
Dilated pupils are another surefire sign that your girl is reaching her peak. This might be hard to tell in the dark, but if the lights are on, all you have to do is ask her to look into your eyes as she climaxes. Chances are she’ll be more than willing to oblige to that romantic request. Just make sure to make note of what her pupils looked like at the beginning of your romp so you can compare their difference in size at the end.

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Pregnant Women Have the Best Sex, Better Orgasms

editor — Wed, 26 Dec 2007 20:19:49 +0000

Few think “orgasmic” when they look at a pregnant woman in all her budding — or bulging — belly beauty. Yet pregnancy is amongst the most sensual, sexual times in a woman’s life.

Unbeknownst to most of us, pregnant women often top the list of the lustfully libidinous, with many expectant mums expressing increased sexual appetite and fervor, much to their partner’s delight or bewilderment, with every ripening day.

Consider, after all, what’s going on with the hot mama’s changing form. First, the hormones of her time with child are blessing her with better skin and hair, making her feel more gorgeous than ever.

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How To Give Her Mind Blowing, Leg Shaking Orgasms

editor — Wed, 26 Dec 2007 20:10:13 +0000

Partners can’t always “give” women orgasms as women are ultimately responsible for their orgasms and what will allow that to occur. What I mean by this is that a woman must have taken time to learn what pleasures her body and know what will bring her to orgasm so that she may in turn help her lover know how to please her.

What A Woman Can Do:

Communicate. You really need to express what will bring you to orgasm to help your partner best pleasure you or don’t be surprised if you are disappointed.

All women are different in our sexual technique preferences and we can often vary what we want in various moments because our sexuality is so highly connected to our psyche. Thus, it is important to communicate what we want through words, moans and even taking your partners hands or body and showing them.

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