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Heterophibic? Me?

editor — Sat, 12 Jul 2008 12:37:06 +0000

I am very excited. One of my fuck buddies is coming over for the weekend in a few hours and I can’t wait. In some ways he’s like a part time boyfriend, or a boyfriend without the hassle of a relationship if that makes any sense to anyone but me. I am looking forward to fucking him senseless all over the house but I’m also looking forward just as much to cooking him dinner and curling up on the sofa with a nice bottle of red wine or two and watching a dvd.

That’s something I would not have said a few months ago!

I’ve never wanted a boyfriend. I don’t know why really. I guess I am quite heterophobic. I have a bit of a phobia of straightness. Fear of the unknown I guess. I did some kind of psychoanalysis test a while ago that actually showed that I like gay people more than straight people. It’s not that I don’t like straight people but I think that we like what is familiar and to me straightness seems like an odd thing. An odd and scary thing, marriage, kids arghhhh! If I did want a boyfriend I’d want him to be bisexual. That way we’d have more of an understanding of eachothers sexuality and our needs. One of my heterophibic views is that to a straight guy my bisexuality is a novelty. Something that they will never understand or really accept. Thinking of me as greedy or just messing about, or worse still thinking that if I fuck a woman it is still all about them and their enjoyment of watching rather than the fact that I really want to fuck her.

So for the moment I am happy with my part-time relationship / non relationship arrangements of which I have three. Kind of testing that water and learning more about straight guys. To me this is sexual experimentation in the extreme. It’s probably just a phase I’m going through, or perhaps I’m just making do until the right woman comes along. haha

playnaughty.com review – part one – getting started

editor — Sun, 03 Feb 2008 21:33:07 +0000

What is playnaughty.com?

Well this is what they say:

“Play Naughty is a great place if you are looking for adult fun.
You will find tens of thousands of like minding adults looking for sex fun throughout the UK. Register now with Play Naughty for adult fun and online adult dating in the UK.

How does online adult dating work?

Well it is easy and a great way to have some real adult fun…all you need to do is sign up to Play Naughty if you are looking for UK sex and you will find hundreds of UK adults looking for fun online.

You can check out their sexy photos and profiles, find out what they are looking for and then get in contact with anyone who is online immediately!

Want some adult fun…well at Play Naughty you can have fun online and make sure you get it!

Register free with Play Naughty and find people in the UK using online adult dating for sexy fun online and for great real life meetings for sex and fun too.

Why wait any longer… you could be having fun NOW? Find out more about adult online dating today.

Adult dating is fun.

It means you can find adult fun online and meet up for real…perhaps the same night for adult sex fun. Sign up now for adult fun with Play Naughty and you will soon find other like minded people in the UK looking for fun too. Some of the sexy UK women on Play Naughty are really hot and are always looking for adult fun and sex dating. Adult fun and dating is easy to find on Play Naughty. Don’t forget to post a picture of yourself (it doesn’t have to be undressed) to get the best results, then get online and start having some real adult fun in the UK. You’ll find it easy to have adult fun in the UK with Play Naughty.

So sign up with Play Naughty, complete your profile and start finding adult fun and dating online with Play Naughty. It’s the easiest way to find adult sex fun that there is. What’s stopping you – you only have one life so live it well and start having fun now! Online adult dating is a great way to find adult fun in the UK.

Register now with Play Naughty and find hot and horny people online today.”

Signing up

The sign up process is really easy and it is also free. You begin by filling ina few details of who you are and where you are. You are asked for your postcode but this is just so they can help you find people near by. Your postcode is never displayed.

You are then asked to choose a password.

It is then a really quick and simple three step process to get you up and running.

Step 1 of 3 – Upload your picture

The first step is to upload your picture. This step is optional and you can easily skip it and add pictures another time. There is more chance of someone being interested in you if you upload a picture. The pictures can be as clean or dirty as you like.

Step 2 of 3 – basic information about you

Fill in some basic details including what you are looking for:

Erotic mail or chat
One-on-one sex
Discreet relationship
Swinging
Alternative/ other

step 3 of 3 – your playnaughty description

This is your chance to sell youself. You don’t have write anything or much but that is one of the things people will use to help them decide if they are interested in you.

That’s it!!!

Your welcome screen

After you have completed the three small steps you get taken to your welcome page, which shows a summary of new members. You can also access your mail, there should be a welcome e-mail waiting for you from Miss Scarlet.

“I am your site manager, here to help you play naughty!

If there is anything that you need to know or if you have any problems, please mail me. I want to make sure that this site is friendly, fun and helps you play as naughtily as you dare!

If you haven’t done so already, do post a sexy picture or two and complete your profile. That way you can find other people who have similar ideas about what having fun is all about!
Miss_Scarlett

PS. if you are looking for more information about how the site works, try checking out the help pages.

PPS. If you find anyone trying to charge for sex, anyone under-age or anyone you think simply shouldn’t be using a site like this please let me know. I want everyone here to play naughty and have fun.”

From the welcome page you can navigate easily around the site using the menu bar links to:

search other members
view and edit your playnaughty profile
check out who is interested in you
chat with other members
mail
help
shop (sells sex toys etc.)

Editing your profile:

To help other members get more of an idea about you, you may wish to add some more information about yourself.

My Basic Profile – describe your physical self and your lifestyle.

On your basic profile you can edit:

birthdate
orientation (straight, straight but bi-curious, bisexual, gay)
smokes (not given, yes, no)
drinks (not given, not at all, light, social, regularly)
drugs (not given, yes, no)

You can edit what you are looking for:

Erotic mail or chat
One-on-one sex
Discreet relationship
Swinging
Alternative/ other

Then you can add info about your body:

Height,
weight,
build,
eyes,
hair,
glasses,
race,
tattoos,
shaved,
pierced

My description

Your chance to say who you are, and give details about what you are looking for. Your discriptionYou can add a description will help sell yourself to others. The more detail you give for both of these the more chance you have of finding the right partner.

My sexual interests

This is where you get to say what your sexual interests are. You can give the activities below a ranking based on how much you enjoy them.

Oral (giving)
Oral (receiving)
Anal (giving)
Anal (receiving)
Same Sex Fun
Couples/Swinging
Threesomes
Groups
Toys
Dressing up
Exhibitionism
Voyeurism
Dogging
Bondage
Master/Slave
S&M
Parties
Watersports

My Pictures
This lets you to easily upload pictures. These can be as naughty or as nice as you wish.

My hotlist
Helps you keep track of possible hotties.

My blocked list
Allows you to stop certain people from contacting you.

You can sign up for free here…

to be continued…

My first threesome – Part 4 – girl meets girl meets guy

editor — Tue, 29 Jan 2008 22:52:39 +0000

This is the third in a series of posts which will tell the story of my first threesome in detail.
part one
part two
part three

We arranged to meet up the following weekend for drinks and to see how things developed from there. I was so excited and turned on for that whole week and was struggling to keep my mind on work and my knickers dry. During the week we teased each-other with flirty texts about what naughty things we were going to do to each-other. By the time the weekend finally arrived I thought I was going to explode with excitement.

We had arranged to meet up in a neutral pub. Somewhere we thought we would be unlikely to run into friends and where we could have a drink and get to know each-other better. Somewhere that was quiet enough so that we could have a bit of privacy for our conversation.

It took me ages to decide what to wear. Well I knew what dress I was going to wear and that my knee high boots were a must but I couldn’t decide on underwear. Thong, lacy knickers, push-up bra, pretty bra, black, white, pink, nothing at all? Decisions decisions decisions. There was lots to think about. I settled on some silky black hipsters with a lace up back threaded with pink ribbon and mismatched black and pink bra that kind of matched. As it was the middle of winter I also thought that tights would have been a good idea. But as I was aiming for maximum accessibility I went for some dark grey stockings with a lacy top and a suspender belt that matched my knickers. I know the whole stockings and suspenders are a bit old fashioned but I’m never convinced that hold-ups no matter how much they cut off my circulation are going to actually hold up.

I was so unbelievably nervous. I am a very shy person.

If I’m just meeting a guy I get nervous enough. I always get pre-meet butterflies. But I love that feeling, it turns me on so much you wouldn’t believe. But girls make me even more nervous for some reason. So you can imagine how nervous meeting a couple was making me, especially as I had fantasised about this for years. It almost felt like I was dreaming. And as I mentioned before this really turns me on. Already in the taxi on the way to meet them I could feel that my knickers were damp. I couldn’t help myself. I was sat in the back of the taxi and undercover of the dress pulled aside my knickers and slipped a finger inside. I was amazed at how wet I was and how swollen and sensitive my clit was and I had not even met them yet.

to be continued…

The internet shagtag food-chain thingamajig

editor — Sun, 27 Jan 2008 18:09:35 +0000

Your chances of finding what you are looking for on the internet is greatly increased the higher you are up the food-chain.

two twin sisters looking for a man (not just in porn and peoples heads. Rare but it does happen)
two sisters looking for a man (see above)
two bisexual females looking for anything
bisexual female looking for anything
female looking for a man
men with fetishes and TVs and subs/Doms etc. etc. etc.
two men looking for a woman
male / female couple looking for anything
man (men who advertise themselves as having 12” cocks are somewhere around 1243 in the chain. It’s such a turn off, nearly as bad as having bigfatschlong69@cockmail.com as your e-mail address. Really is there any need?

This food chain has been put together using my opinions from my experiences on the net and stuff the other people have told me. It is probably a load of old codswallop.
*yes men may get lots of offers to internet ads but generally are inundated with replies from ladies who want paying so those don’t count.
** i didn’t include Gay men or lesbians as I’m not sure where they fit in the chain.
*** I didn’t include bisexual men because my judgement is clouded and I’d have put them right at the top of the chain and I really don’t have a clue where they would be in reality.

Truth or dare party

editor — Sat, 26 Jan 2008 00:48:41 +0000

I want I want I want never gets apparently. But I’ve never really found that to be true.

I want a truth or dare party for my next birthday party.

I came across this fun website today for playing truth or dare. You can pick how R-rated the game is and add your own truths and dares, though it already has a bank of 14,155

Here are some of the dares I like:

Read this dare aloud. By the time you finish reading the dare, you have 30 seconds to tag any other players in the game. Each play you tag must make out with you for 30 seconds, in a private room. If you don’t tag anyone, the group gets to give you dare of their choice.

Pick two other players, one of each sex. Now take them into a private room and tell them how to make out. They must do whatever you say, within the rating of this game. After one minute return to the group.

Strip completely and lie down on a bed. The group then blindfolds you and gathers around the bed. Each other member of the group has 1 minute to have straight sex with you, if they choose. During the process, you cannot move. You must also continually say “Fuck Me” over and over while the person is riding you.

Pick one member of the opposite sex, and someone to be the “sculptor.” Now the sculptor has complete control of you and your partner. The sculptor may add or remove clothing as they wish, and may place you and your partner in any position that they want. You have no say in what the sculptor wants to do.

Choose a member of the opposite sex. This player gets to mount and dry hump you while everyone else watches. Keep grinding, nice and slow for the remainder of your turn.

If you want to play go to http://www.tordol.com…

My first threesome – Part 2 – girl meets girl meets guy

editor — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 00:10:30 +0000

This is the second in a series of posts which will tell the story of my first threesome in detail. You can see part one here…

Finding the other two (continued)

I already knew of a few sites for meeting like minded people for sex.

Adultfriendfinder and playnaughty were my favourites and had come up with the goods on many a cum filled occasion.

But I new that as much as I love those sites I’d need to cast the net wider to make sure I got exactly what I was looking for. It was my first threesome after all, something I had fantasised over since my first ever wank and I wanted it to be perfect. So I knew I was going to be very fussy, and why not!

I knew that there are loads of couples out there who are looking for a bi or a curious girl to come and join them.

I’ve seen their ads.

I’ve chatted to them.

I’ve done cam2cam with them.

Most of the couples I had spoken to and seen ads for were really just looking for some experimentation and as I mentioned in part one, I do not want to be anyone’s experiment.
So I did some research and came up with a some additions to my list. I posted ads at:

www.playnaughty.com

www.sexintheuk.com

www.adultfriendfinder.com

www.friendfinder.com

www.ukchatterbox.co.uk

www.gumtree.com

While I waited for responses I logged-on to ukchatterbox to see if there was anyone interesting online. Had a few hot steamy encounters from here but you really have to pick carefully.

I suppose that is true of all of these sites you really have to be careful and make sure that you’ve got an escape plan if it all goes wrong.

I always set up a series of safe calls, so that there is always someone who knows
where I am and what I’m doing.

I was quite surprised that gumtree was the first to come up with something. I’d had a message within 30 mins from a couple who sounded like just what I was looking for. She was proper bi and not just curious and they had had a threesome before. That was another thing on my wish list. I didn’t want to be the one to whiteness any jealously issues a that the first time couple might discover once we were all naked and horny. So a couple who had done it before was certainly a good thing in my eyes.

Within 30 mins I was chatting to the girl on msn. They were a couple in their late 30s. A decade older than me, which I wasn’t to sure about. I usually prefer younger or around my age (28) but they seemed perfect in every other way even with a few bonuses

a nice shaved pussy

and a nice looking cock

Plus she looked a lot younger and had an amazing body, which it turns out it even hotter in the flesh.
We chatted about what we enjoyed doing etc and it sounded like the three of us would get on quite well!!!

to be continued…

My first threesome – Part 1 – girl meets girl meets guy

editor — Thu, 17 Jan 2008 00:25:23 +0000

This is the first in a series of posts which will tell the story of my first threesome in detail.

You may find it surprising that someone who describes herself as a bisexual nymphomaniac has not enjoyed threesomes on a regular basis. In fact until a few weeks ago I had never even had one. I have always thought that a threesome with another guy and girl would be the most amazingly erotic sexual experience I could ever have. The thought of being fucked really hard by a guy whist I have my face buried in pussy has been the inspiration behind many a wank.

Well two weeks ago I decided to find out and that dream became a reality.

So I’ll start at the beginning

One day before Chrismas I was just sat there and I randomly started thinking about threesomes. That’s not a big surprise because it is one of my favourite fantasies. I was thinking about how I would really love to have one and how my dream threesome would play out. That’s when I decided that it was time to make that dream come true.

Finding the other two

So first of all I had to find some willing participants. This turned out be much more difficult than I thought. I have a few male fuck buddies who would all love the oportunuty to do a threesome but not a willing bi female in sight. That’s what was making my search quite difficult.
I love the idea of a threesome but I had a quite specific idea of what I was looking for in the other two participants, in particular the girl.

I never want to be a girls first. NEVER.
I never want to fuck a “curious” girl.
I would only ever sleep with a lesbian or bi girl who had experienced her fair share of pussy before.

After ringing round everyone I knew who I knew I could ring round and ask that kind of question to I decided to head to the internet and see what I could find.

I thought I’d cast the net wide to get the best catch so I headed to:

www.playnaughty.com

www.sexintheuk.com

www.adultfriendfinder.com

www.friendfinder.com

www.ukchatterbox.co.uk

www.gumtree.com

to be continued…

Man Gets Naked for Text Messaging Girl – Both Get Arrested

editor — Wed, 26 Dec 2007 21:43:36 +0000

WELLINGTON (Reuters) – A New Zealand woman who sent a naked man to the wrong house on the promise of a good time has been charged with misusing a telephone, local media reported on Wednesday.

The 17-year-old woman sent the man an enticing text message offering him an early Christmas present in the shape of two friendly women and suggested he take off his clothes to save time, the Manawatu Standard reported.

The 31-year old man wasted no time in arriving at the house, and took off his clothes and threw them through the window before entering.